Have you ever spent hours talking about something that bothers you? Do you call friends or family to ventilate? Do you think a solution and relief will appear if you excite it over and over again? How much time do you spend in the common reality Often I hear people talking about what`s going on in their head, as if their thoughts were a reality. I only did it the other day for over an hour. I knew what I was doing, and I stayed there because I had some free time. “An inactive mind is the devil`s playground.” We live in a world of agreement reality, it happens all the time around us. People who disagree with prevailing opinions often remain calm because of the spiral of silence. The reason for this theory, developed by the German political scientist Elisabeth Noelle-Neumann, is that if one opposes a well-received social agreement, one risks being thrown out of the campfire and eaten by wolves. “The reality of the agreement is the knowledge that has been gained because others tell you that`s the way it is.” After a little circular time in my head, I called a friend on the pretext that I needed her opinion. I didn`t really take care of their comments; I just wanted to let the link of my internal dialogue unfold. The peculiarities are that I felt that a teacher in one of my kindergartens was a bit abused. My girlfriend listened politely, agreed, and then threw some of her opinions into the fire. My friend`s well-intentioned participation and agreement consolidated my story and what started as a flame turned into a campfire. We analyzed the teacher`s personality and motivations, and analyzed what was happening from different angles. Finally, we went up the lens and made the problem more systematic, a sample of the most important problems that arose at school.

Our continuous convergence has continued to stoke the fire, we have settled around it and we are roasting resentment in just tones. Talking to your friends or your shrinking will only be helpful if they are brave enough to offer a different perspective. An agreement will confirm your position and keep you in mind. You`re dead in your head. I would have liked to have been aired and consent worked, and I moved away from those calls that felt better. The agreement creates and confirms positions and aerates neural trajectories. I left the reputation angry and dispossessed, planted in a clearly defined attitude. Whenever I feel good and someone else is wrong, the alarm bell sounds.

There is no possibility if positions are set. A single drop of doubt can allow you to enter the room. Curiosity creates bridges between us. (Nounon) Ideas and beliefs that members of a group such as a society or culture generally accept as true.

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